How to ensure you don’t end up in a job you’ll regret

Ideal job description
It's normal for employers to have a person specification where they clearly outline key essential and desirable qualities they want in an ideal candidate. However, it is rare to see it the other way round. I always advise my clients to make up a job description that aligns with their skills, passions, personality and ambitions. This ideal job description is what they use as a benchmark for every job opportunity they come across. Of course it's probably unrealistic to find a job that matches the description a hundred percent but at least they end up with one that is close enough or more fulfilling than having a job that you have no interest in.
Interview transparency
Many people don't see the need to express who they really are during job interviews. Rather than having a mutual discussion to assess if there is a fit between them and the employer or job opportunity, they sell themselves often under false pretences so they can appeal to the employer. We hide our true values and interests out of a fear that we'll jeopardize our chances of getting the job. Although this ‘fake it till you make it’ approach to tick the boxes might achieve the instant gratification of landing the job by, it is could be end up being counterproductive and self-sabotaging for long-term career success and fulfillment.
Personal recommendation
It is widely said that ''word of mouth is best form of advertising'. In fact, Nandos apparently gained most of their initial exposure through word of mouth and personal recommendation. Getting referrals or approvals from friends and people you trust is also a great way to ensure that you don’t end up with an employer or job from hell. Not only will this help you get access to the hidden job market, but you are also more likely to get an unbiased perspective about the employer or job because the person cares about your well-being. Many companies also provide incentives for employees to refer a friend, so it's a no brainer.
Social proofing
Social proofing is a concept that is almost natural to the economic behaviour of humans. Before making a decision concerning something like a holiday, restaurant or a service, many of us like to listen to the judgements and reviews of others who have experienced what we are thinking of trying out. This is how companies like Trip Advisor make their money. Glassdoor is a great way to get social proof from an employment perspective; it is a website where current and former employees anonymously review companies. This could help you make a good judgement on an employer or their company culture.








